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Better Marriages North Carolina is a group of couples who believe in marriage, know that a good marriage takes some work, and that communication with other married couples really helps improve our own relationships. We are affiliated with Better Marriages, a nonsectarian nonprofit which is based in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. We are not affiliated with any religious denomination. Better Marriages North Carolina invites you to consider making your marriage the best it can be. Help yourself while helping others!
SAVE THE DATE:  The Better Marriages NC Weekend Getaway will be March 9-10, 2018 at the Doubletree Inn, Durham/RTP, 4810 Page Creek Lane, Durham, NC 27703. For more details, check the events page.

Save the date and plan to join us for a great weekend! Registration opens soon.  
Please look through our website and see how you can participate with other North Carolina couples.

Educating Couples for Vibrant, Lifelong Relationships

We all want the same thing, whether our relationship has just begun or we've been married for years: We want a
healthy, mutually-satisfying relationship with the one we love. Check us out. We're confident you'll find something that serves your interests well. Better Marriages North Carolina exists to serve you as a couple, whatever the stage of your life and relationship.
  • We have resources you can use to strengthen the connection between you and your partner.
  • We sponsor statewide events, to stimulate your ongoing growth together.
  • We sponsor marriage enrichment groups where couples gather for mutual support and encouragement.
  • We even offer training for couples who want to have an impact on the lives of (or, 'lead and influence') other couples.

You don't have to be a member of Better Marriages to attend meetings, though we do encourage you to join. Better Marriages NC seeks to promote and provide enrichment opportunities and resources that strengthen couple relationships and enhance personal growth, mutual fulfillment, and family wellness. Its programs are educational in nature and are not intended as therapy or counseling.

Mission and Vision

Mission

To promote better marriages by providing enrichment opportunities and resources to strengthen couple relationships, increase intimacy, and enhance personal growth, mutual fulfillment, and family wellness.

Vision

To create a network of couples building healthy marriages by providing marriage education and enrichment opportunities in partnership with other public, private, and faith-based organizations.

History

In September of 1967, and at the age of 60, David Mace moved to Winston-Salem, NC to become a Professor of Sociology with the Bowman Gray School of Medicine at Wake Forest University. Previously David and his spouse Vera had jointly served as executive directors of the American Association of Marriage Counselors from 1960-1967, and even earlier during the 1940’s as joint directors of the Marriage Guidance Council in England. They would both move to the United States in 1949 when David would begin his first decade of professorship at Drew University in New Jersey, before finally making their last move to North Carolina.

Following a lifetime of “working for better marriages”, David and Vera would establish the Association for Couples in Marriage Enrichment (ACME) on their fortieth wedding anniversary in July of 1973. Following their slogan for ACME, “to work for better marriages, beginning with our own”, David and Vera would create an organization that married couples could join to express their support of marriage and grow in their marriage relationship. This emphasis would significantly differ from their earlier focus on counseling and intervention, and instead focus on enrichment and education. According to David Mace:


“Our hope was that it might be quite natural (with no direct religious, political or professional connections of any kind) and might, therefore, become a coordinating agency for other organizations that were developing programs in this new field; that it might undertake the task of setting standards for leadership; that it might encourage the development of local chapters which could promote in their communities the cause of better marriage.” (Mace, Close Companions, 1982).

Following establishment of the parent organization, a small group of North Carolina couples, many from the Winston-Salem area, soon joined to establish the Association for Couples in Marriage Enrichment North Carolina Council. With a focus on marriage support groups and education, North Carolina has grown to include marriage enrichment groups across the state.

Most recently, following the lead of the national organization (Better Marriages), our state organization has undergone a name change, becoming known as Better Marriages NC, and continues to operate with one of the largest state memberships nationally. Better Marriages North Carolina has presented an annual marriage enrichment conference for four decades, frequently during the month of February. Additionally, North Carolina is the home of the Better Marriages national office, located in Winston-Salem, NC.

Upcoming Events - 2018 North Carolina Organization's Marriage Enrichment Event

Getaway 2018
Holmes


After the keynote address by Michael and Myra Holmes on Friday night, 3 workshops will be offered on Saturday:
  • Jim and Johnnie Armentrout will focus on “Speaking to be Heard”
  • Hal and Roberta Melton will share with us on “Listening to Understand”
  • Eddie and Sylvia Robertson - Speaking + Listening = Dialogue

Early-bird registration will soon be available for $149.00. This includes meals for two people on Friday evening and Saturday lunch along with admission to all sessions and workshops.

A special rate of $99/night (plus taxes and fees) will be offered at the DoubleTree Hilton. This includes breakfast for two people each morning. This rate is also good for Saturday night if you want to make it a full weekend.

The full registration fee after the early-bird period will be $169.00 beginning on 2/8/2018. Watch this site or your email (if you are on our mailing list) for registration to open in early December.

For more information, contact Jean Brewer at (336) 978-8611 or jeanbrewer68@gmail.com.

Past Event: 2017 North Carolina Organization's Marriage Enrichment Event

Couples from Charlotte to Burlington and points in between gathered for a wonderful dinner and program in February of 2017 at the Village Inn and Events Center in Clemmons, NC. The Program based on Gary Chapman’s book on The Five Love Languages was led by MaryJane and Larry Lieberman. The food was delicious and the program was even better. All present were grateful to Jean Brewer and other organizers of the event for providing a great evening of fun and fellowship.

Past Event: 2016 North Carolina Organization's Marriage Enrichment Event

More than 40 couples gathered for a wonderful weekend in April 2016 at the Lake Junaluska resort to explore the topic of "Buidling a Healthy Marriage." Seven speaker couples presented  various topics that helped partners consider the importance of creating healthy or healthier marriages. More information about the program is available in the brochure linked here.

Past Event: 2015 North Carolina Organization's Marriage Enrichment Event

A great group of couples enjoyed a fantastic conference/retreat in Cary on March 6-7, 2015 to explore the theme of "Unplug to Connect: Disconnecting from Distractors to Enhance Your Relationship." In addition to top-notch presenters and meaningful opportunities to enjoy inentional dialogue, the event featured fun time for socializing and sharing between couples. You can see more about the program by reviewing the brochure here.

Past Event: 2014 "Let Love Lure You In" Marriage Enrichment Event

A great group of couples escaped to a romantic mountain inn for a weekend filled with education, connections and experiences focused on enriching their marriages! We gathered on April 4-6, 2014, at the Lake Lure Inn, where scenes from the iconic movie Dirty Dancing was filmed. A highlight of the wonderful weekend was the program facilitated by expert leaders Clay and Jane Turner, who guided couples to help everyone discover the full potential in their marriages. You can check out the print brochure here.

Past Event: 2013 North Carolina Organization's Marriage Enrichment Event

Couples had a wonderful time at the Better Marriages NC's annual conference on February 8-9, 2013, in Clemmons, NC. Using the theme of "Keep It Simple Sweetie," we offered quality sessions designed to help couples look at their relevant issues.  Presenters were local experienced favorites who present marriage enrichment in very entertaining and meaningful ways, and married couples had the opportunity to hear and dance to your favorite love songs during the conference! This was a great time to connect with other couples committed to their marriages and it was definitely a weekend to remember. Check out the brochure here.

Past Event: 2012 North Carolina Retreat and Conference

Thank you to everyone who joined us for a fantastic marriage enrichment experience in western North Carolina on Friday, April 20 to Sunday, April 22, 2012. From quality sessions designed to help couples look at their relevant issues, to fantastic local mountain music, dancing and dining where couples connected with others committed to their marriages, to exclusive time to enjoy the area's beautiful offerings, this was certainly a weekend to remember. To see more about the program, take a look at the brochure here.


Past Event: 2011 North Carolina Retreat & Conference



We had a wonderful time in 2011 at our annual retreat and conference. Using the theme of "Stop in the Name of Love: Relax, Reconnect, Renew," more than 40 couples gathered in Raleigh to focus on enriching their marriages. To see more about the program, take a look at this brochure.




Visit these links to view a variety of materials for a wide range of couple interests, available from the Better Marriages national website:

Contact Us

If you are interested in learning about marriage enrichment groups or education opportunities in your area, please contact us by email.

North Carolina Board Members

President Couple
Carl and Nancy Terry
919-559-2696
cterry5@nc.rr.com
 
Past President Couple      
Jim and Kathy Weidner
704-576-1409 or 704-576-1989
jsweidneratty@aol.com
weidner.kathy@gmail.com
 
Vice President Couple    
Chris and Ron Musgrave
336-764-5427
cmusgrave@att.net
Rmusgrave@att.net
 
Secretary Couple
Jean and Skip Larson
336-655-5818 or 336-529-0513
jeanlarson@triad.rr.com
skiplarson@triad.rr.com
 
Treasurer Couple
Jean and Ray Brewer
336-978-8611 or 336-972-6941
jeanbrewer68@gmail.com
rbrewer0827@gmail.com
 
 
 
Directors at Large
MaryJane and Larry Lieberman
704-232-0891 or 704-534-1988
Liebermangroup@gmail.com
 

Nancy Mayer and Dave Salman
nancy.mayer@gmail.com
mscasa919@gmail.com
 

Jim and Leslie Rhodes
336-229-6335
JRLLRHODES@gmail.com
 

Beth and Jim Flanagan
919-758-8578
bflanagan312@gmail.com
 

Marriage Enrichment Group Contact Couples

Burlington
Ann and Dennis Wooten
336-260-1774
callannforalbums@aol.com
dnwooten@aol.com
 
Chapel Hill
Karen and Michael Moorman
919-544-3695
Ke_Moorman@yahoo.com
Mp_Moorman@yahoo.com
 
Charlotte
Jim and Kathy Weidner
704-576-1409
weidner.kathy@gmail.com
 
Durham
David Salman and Nancy Mayer
mscasa919@gmail.com
nancy.mayer@gmail.com
 
Fayetteville
LaTricia and Anthony Smith
910-257-2991
Latricia@astrongerbond.com
 
Fayetteville
Kali and LaKeshia Payton
910-978-0294
Loveraisers@gmail.com
 
Garner/Clayton
Julia and Reginald McClain
Rj0709@bellsouth.net
 
Raleigh/Cary
Carl and Nancy Terry
919-845-4825
cterry5@nc.rr.com
nancyterry20@gmail.com
 
Winston-Salem
Jean and Ray Brewer
336-978-8611
Jeanbrewer68@gmail.com
 
Wilmington
Marci and Paul Staten
910-200-7730
marcistaten@gmail.com
 
Wilson/Rocky Mount/Greenville areas              
Turner and Wayne Tamberelli
Tamberelli@hotmail.com
Waynet3123@aol.com
 
Other areas in NC
Carl and Nancy Terry
919-845-4825
cterry5@nc.rr.com
nancyterry20@gmail.com
 

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